To begin with, a small clarification: sex dreams are rarely associated with the actual sexual life. Rather, they talk about some internal struggle of contradictions or express subconscious worries and anxieties.
For example, a dream in which you engage in passionate sex with your boss can mean your quite natural desire to be more successful, and, probably, lately you've often thought about raising or changing jobs for the one that you really like and better at.
Let's briefly consider some of the most common storylines of sex dreams:
- Sex with the "ex".
No, this is not at all a sign of a sudden awakening desire to return to the ex-gf/bf, and one does not need to grab the phone urgently. It is more likely that after a past relationship, you have a feeling of some incompleteness. If you saw such a dream at that time, when you have already formed a new life with another, a new person, it most likely means that you are experiencing some fears about your new relationship. Or, this relationship suddenly revived some feeling, experienced in the past. Analyze your sex life and note how you felt awake. - Homosexual sex.
If in real life you are heterosexual, then a dream in which you suddenly had an intimate relationship with a person (whether familiar or not) of the same sex, most likely, "throws up" to you a self-estimation. Perhaps it's worth loving that part of yourself that you do not like. However, if in your erotic dream you have sex with a beloved friend of the same sex as you, most likely, it speaks of your lack of confidence in friendship, what happened between you split or that you subconsciously try to imitate some of its quality, talent. But do not worry, such a dream is not a real secret desire to once sleep with a best friend. - Sex with a celebrity.
It is possible, of course, that in fact you do not mind sleeping with J.Lo or Chenning Tatum. But it can also happen that you are striving for more. Erotic dreams with the participation of celebrities express the desire to achieve recognition, fame, wealth or simply to strengthen their social status. Try VIP escort lady, most of them are models. - Sex with a Stranger.
Carl Jung's theory was that every man and every woman has the animus or anima. Animus is the male energy of women, and anima is the female energy of men. So, the dream of having sex with a complete stranger is linked with the state of your animus / anima. It's about the internal balance of your masculine and feminine beginnings, explains. Simply put, such a dream considering that it is pleasant and does not have a traumatic aspect can by chance prove to be a sign of your personal growth.